Seriously, why everyone thinks that
if you are pretty everything is so much easier for you, you can get everything
you want without any efforts? I’m sick of such phrases as “sure, you are so
pretty that everyone likes you”, “it costs you only one smile to conquer anyone”
etc. And the best one – “you can have any guy you want because you are pretty
and they all want to talk to you”. Holy crap!
Certainly, nice-looking appearance helps
to gain people you meet. Also it makes a process of looking at the mirror very
pleasant. But being pretty sometimes becomes a hard burden. You have to prove
that even though you are aware of your prettiness you don’t plume yourself on
it. You have to prove that you are modest and nice person DESPITE your
appearance. Because there always will be people who will think that you are
narcissistic and arrogant because you have a pretty face.
Let’s look at girls first. It happened
several times that girls I met became cold and distant with me right away because they
were jealous. They were annoyed by the fact that guys wanted to talk to me,
that I got compliments, and that I was in the limelight at parties. Some of
them said it to me directly and usually we became good friends after such confidence.
Some of them didn’t trust me and discussed me behind my back so I learnt about
their attitude later. I can’t say that it happens often, but when it happens,
it always upsets me a lot and I try to do my best to conquer sympathy of these
girls.
Now let’s talk about guys. Guess
what? It’s harder to find a boyfriend when you are pretty. Oh yes, it’s rather
easy to find someone to hook up with. But first of all, it’s not safe and not
very good for your health. And secondly, after a while you get tired of not
being taken seriously. No way, what do expect, girl? How can anyone take seriously
a pretty girl? Sorry, what were you
saying about world economy? I was staring at your lips so I missed it. You
become a nice-looking doll that is shown as a treasure to his friends, to prove
that he is such a MAN, because he has got SUCH a girl. Like an expensive, brand
car. A month is the longest relationship you are about to have. After that, get
ready to hear that he is not good enough for you and that you should find
someone more successful and confident. Simple psychology – our eyes are
attracted by bright and extraordinary things, but it needs a lot of courage to
keep these things with you every day. We prefer something more familiar to live
with, something simpler. It just feels safer and more comfortable to be with an
average person.
Well, in fact, it’s not that
depressive and hopeless. One day, if you are lucky enough, you find a person
who likes your appearance but cares more about your personality. And it’s not even
a rare thing. I just want you, guys, to know that I prefer to be called “a nice
girl” than “a pretty girl”. After all, it doesn’t cost me anything to make you do whatever I want you to do, right?
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